Monday, February 22, 2010

29 Weeks (Explosion Part 2)



Mom, her boyfriend John, and my brother Lloyd came out to visit us in Athens for the first time this weekend. The weather was beautiful and we got to show them a lot of the fun sights around town, like our favorite park and the gorgeous antebellum homes. But they got most excited when a gigantic "Girls Gone Wild" bus pulled into the parking lot of the restaurant where we were eating supper and a couple of girls hopped out with shorts that looked more like undies. This warranted all the cameras to come out (my family has never spent much time in a big college town before). Shortly after that, we took the fam walking through the downtown district, where a drunk guy on the street had fun messing with Lloyd. Lloyd apparently had "tourist" written on his forehead, and has not yet honed the skill of avoiding creeps on the street by ignoring their advances and continuing to walk. It was quite a lot of excitement for our small-town company to undertake in one night!



The baby has been moving a LOT lately and has been getting the hiccups often. On my last ultrasound, she was already head-down, and it always reassures me to feel those little rhythmic hiccups coming from my lower abdomen, indicating that her head is still in the right place and will hopefully stay that way until she makes her exit! Now that I know which way her body is turned, it's fun to make guesses about whether she's kicking or punching whenever she starts to move. Sometimes I swear I can feel a foot poking out of my stomach, and it's really cool trying to detect the shape of her foot through my skin. All of this intense movement can make it tough to sleep at night and sometimes makes it kind of hard to focus on my daily activities because I become so focused on the sensations I'm feeling instead. It's definitely the most awesome thing to ever happen in my body!

I think our little girl is going to have a sweet tooth like her mama, because baked goods have become my biggest weakness in pregnancy. You know how most grocery stores have their bakery tucked away into a hidden corner? My grocery store has strategically designed the flow of the store so that you HAVE to walk between tables of Danish pastries, doughnuts, cakes, and frosted cookies to get from the produce section to the refrigerated section. It's a fatal situation for a pregnant woman with a hound dog's sense of smell! I have to force myself to go out of the way and avoid the whole disastrous set-up by doubling back through the produce. But last week I made the mistake of going to the store alone, and succumbed to a box of six GINORMOUS cheese danishes. (Somehow I am less tempted to buy bad stuff when Stephen is with me... I guess he's an accountability partner of sorts because I want to be a stronger person when he is around.) I wanted those danishes so badly that I squatted ALL the way down to find the freshest ones from the very bottom shelf (this is a big sacrifice since it's so much work to get back up!). Unfortunately, Stephen does not have a weakness for cheese danishes, so I was forced to eat the whole box by myself within two days-- you know, before they lost their freshness. Then my mom brought me a box of Girl Scout Thin Mints, my very favorite cookie from my days of Girl Scouting, and I ate the whole box (minus the one cookie that Stephen wanted), by myself within 24 hours... and paid for all the calories by gaining three pounds in one week.

The maternity jeans that have been so good to me ever since week 13 decided this week that they no longer like my hips. I don't know what my hips did to make the jeans so spiteful, but it's now a full-scale war to get the elastic waistband up over my butt. They just don't want to be friends anymore! Since I cannot live without jeans for two to three more months, I've had to order another pair that will hopefully get me through to the end. I had to pull out the measuring tape to figure out what size to order, and thought I'd take all my measurements just for the heck of it. This is when I discovered that my hips, which have always been a stubborn two sizes ahead of the rest of my body, are still determined to keep up their position at the top (a full inch ahead of my preggo belly). They just hate giving up their spot of honor-- and I just hope they decide to give up on this race soon. They have my full permission to make a big comeback in the delivery room, but they really need to quit trying to keep up with my belly for the time being!

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

28 Weeks





We got several inches of snow in Athens this weekend. We loved watching the snow fall, it was mesmerizing and beautiful! This is the most snow I've seen this far south since the Blizzard of '93 (or was it '94?). It's surreal to see a Winter Wonderland in our yard!



Our little girl has been getting lots of love lately! We got this surprise in the mail from Sonya: a sweet, soft baby blanket she sewed herself (complete with a "Nana Ing" sewn signature!).



And Stephen's parents brought us four adorable baby outfits when they came to visit last weekend! (I promise I will quit posting pictures of every outfit we get! But do you see that denim skirt with little flowers embroidered into it? It's so cute!) This brings our grand total up to nine outfits... we're making progress!



Stephen and I had a sweet last Valentine's Day together before baby makes three. It would have been nice to go to a romantic gourmet restaurant for our last holiday, but I thought about how that one meal could buy the infant car seat we need, or three huge boxes of diapers, or one-third of a crib, so there was no nice restaurant this year. But we did have a good time making a "gourmet" meal at home, and it was actually really fun to make stuffed manicotti together. (Stuffing the shells is definitely a two person job!) I made a feta and kalamati salad to go with it while Stephen prepared some delicious bread from the bakery. And I made one of the only desserts Stephen really loves, cream cheese pound cake with blueberry topping, to finish things off. It was really, really nice to make a special meal at home together =)

Second Trimester Top Ten

I'm kind of sad to say good-bye to the second trimester, because it has been such a nice time (and a million times better than the first tri!). But getting into the third trimester gets us closer to finally meeting our daughter!

The Goods

1. Feeling our baby moving inside me-- it's one of the highlights of my day. (I'll admit there are some moments when I don't enjoy being a human punching bag, but for the most part, it's great =)
2. Watching Stephen become more and more excited about having a baby and seeing him adjust to becoming a more "parental" person. I love the sporadic moments when Stephen leans over to rub or kiss my growing belly.
3. Finding out we are having a little girl!
4. When strangers in public get excited about my pregnancy. It's amazing how a round belly can make people smile. (The most touching instance was when a homeless woman asked me for a stamp at the post office, then her face lit up when she started asking me about the baby.)
5. The fun (and challenge) of picking out a name for our daughter together. (Yes, we do have some names in mind, but aren't ready to make an announcement... so if you know what our ideas are, stay mum for now, please!)
6. Making preparations for our baby girl. (Collecting baby girl clothes has turned out to be just as much fun as everyone told me it would be.)
7. It's been awesome to NOT have that monthly visitor and all the things that go along with it.
8. Not having to worry about getting pregnant!
9. I would be lying if I didn't mention that it's nice to have larger kahunas for a few months. (But when I think about the long-term effects of pregnancy on them, well, I know it's all downhill from here...)
10. My hair is growing at the speed of lightening... And while the hair on my head is breaking growing records, the rate of hair growth on my legs has slowed down to a snail's pace. Weird, but awesome, especially since shaving my legs is becoming more and more difficult to do!

The Not-so-Goods

1. The stresses of preparing for a baby. (How are we ever going to be able to afford all those adorable things she needs? What on earth are we going to do when she starts crying? What if I have problems with breastfeeding? How long will it take us to adjust to having a baby to take care of? How will we find time to get some R&R together?) Not to mention the anxiety of thinking about the impending moment when the baby has to squeeze out of my body...
2. The things people say about my growing belly that make me feel bad, even when they are well-intended. (Those of you who have been pregnant before know what I'm talking about!)
3. Sciatic pains-- there's nothing like an ache in your butt and legs to keep you awake at night. Sometimes I get so sore that I feel like I've run a marathon. And you know I've come nowhere even CLOSE to running, much less a marathon...
4. Indigestion (I am SO tired of burping like a man! How do guys live with this for their whole lives?! And heartburn... yuck!!)
5. Pregnancy fog-- I swear my brain is only functioning at 50%. I walk into doors. I forget to do things even when they are written on both my calendar and my to-do list. I burned my hands on three separate occasions while cooking last week...
6. Infections. Need I say more?
7. Still missing those deli sandwiches! I already know what I want to eat first thing after the baby is born (Italian BMT from Subway, please). Also missing my occasional glass of wine. (Sparkling grape juice just doesn't do the trick!)
8. Dry itchy skin, especially on my stretched-out belly (I might as well buy some stock in the Lubriderm company).
9. Nosebleeds, and of course gum bleeds (sounds like fun, eh?)
10. Bad circulation (I can't feel my fingers!)

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Busy, Busy, Busy

27 Weeks


My due date is less than three months away now and my to-do list is a mile long! We're trying to accomplish a ton of stuff before I get super-huge, super-uncomfortable, and super-tired, and also before Stephen's job gets super-hectic as the semester progresses.

My latest challenge has been trying to sift through all the baby stuff we need to start stocking up on soon. It's overwhelming and I feel totally lost in all the baby products! Many, many, MANY thanks to my fellow mommies Jenny, Amber, and Kristina, who have given me awesome suggestions and advice about what we will actually need. You guys are the best!!!

Stephen and I are taking classes once a week through February and March, and they have actually been pretty fun so far. Right now we're doing the childbirth classes, which have been extremely helpful already. I can't wait to take the rest of our classes, they make me feel so much better prepared and calm about everything that's about to happen.

We're also having company for the first time since we moved here. This weekend Stephen's parents made the five hour drive to visit us and we showed them where the hospital is. It's weird to think that the next time they'll be here to visit, we'll have a baby! My mom and her boyfriend are coming next weekend, and I'll be showing her where everything is in our kitchen, etc., since she's planning to come out and help us for several days after the baby is born.

We've also been busy trying to make room for the baby. It's amazing how much junk we've accumulated over the years! We've already made several trips to the Goodwill dropoff, I'm packing up the things we won't be needing anytime soon, and trying to make things as streamlined as possible around here so it will be easier for us when we're adjusting to having a baby around.

The most important thing that's been going on to prepare for the baby lately is that I've finally been exercising! Remember how I was having a hard time moving around a few weeks ago? I've been doing a lot of prenatal yoga, and it has helped tremendously. I'm already more mobile, more energetic, and have better balance and stamina and more strength. I'm feeling soooo much better now!